Honestly, I misread this comment of yours

If someone had taught me how important it was and what things were at stake for women’s first time, I’d have done it a lot differently.

Apologies for assuming you were a woman. I didn’t catch the “I’d done it a lot differently part”.

But there is a lot of misogyny on Lemmy, ask any woman here about our experiences. That’s not sexism, that’s being realistic.