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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Imagine you just watched your child die because they needed a blood transfusion a week ago but it was against your religion.

    This is like the story of Onan. His brother died so it was his job to marry his brother’s wife and give her a son. But he didn’t want to so he “spilled his seed.” So God killed him for failing to do his duty and provide her a son.

    But later when God gave his laws for people to follow, the punishment was not death, it was to take him in front of the town elders and “remove a sandal from his foot and spit in his face.” Like c’mon. What are we even doing here, folks?


  • My daughter is 20 and in college now but I was a single dad and spent many days like you where parenting took every minute I had.

    It absolutely gets easier. You’re In the phase where they’re mobile, can’t do anything for themselves, yet somehow, if you look away for 3 seconds they will burn the house down.

    They start taking care of themselves more and rmore, requiring less constant watching until one day you wake up and they’re 20 and in college